Grammar Grater®with Luke Taylor |
I know "If I were you ..." is right but why shouldn't it be "If I was you..."? Why use the plural "were" with the singular "I"?This is a great question with an interesting answer. The listener points out that "were" is plural, and that's correct if we were talking about regular second or third-person plural past tense, but we're not. In the case of "If I were you," the verb "to be" is actually in the subjunctive mood.
I was outside this morning, and it was rainy.In this case, the verb to be is in the indicative mood and takes the form of was, because the subject is stating a fact.
If I were to go outside, I'd get wet in the rain.In this case, the verb to be is in the subjunctive mood and takes the form of were, because the subject is expressing a possibility or hypothesisstating a fact.
The dean recommends he face expulsion.More commonly, the subjunctive mood is employed in hypothetical uses of "be" instead of "am," "is" or "are" or "were" instead of was.
If I were him...Subjunctives exist to a great degree in French and Spanish, with complete conjugations that need to be learned to express this mood correctly. In English, it's not anywhere as complex nor as well known which may be why it's so commonly misused in conversation, popular culture, and music.
Be that as it may...
Would that it were so...
Sources: Fowler's Modern English Usage by H.W. Burchfield; Woe is I by Patricia O'Conner; and Garner's Modern American Usage by Bryan A. Garner.
Music from this Episode: "If You Were Here" by The Thompson Twins; "I Wish" by Skee-Lo; "Rich Girl" by Gwen Stefani; and "No Myth" by Michael Penn.
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