Posted at 7:28 AM on February 9, 2010
by Bob Collins
(11 Comments)
Filed under: Five by 8
"I stuck my head in the hole, and I heard Ben," she said. "He was singing." The tune was from the hymn, "Where Love and Charity Prevail," but Renee is pretty sure he was making up the words.It's impossible to listen to the interview without thinking about the role of God in Ben's life, an invitation to try to make sense of his death. I heard members of the New Orleans Saints claim that God's plan was for them to win a Super Bowl. In the wake of the earthquake in Haiti, a country of very devout people and very devout people who wanted to help them, what was the plan?
Renee yelled for him: She and Jon were OK. She loved him. And keep singing!
She heard Ben sing "God's peace to us we pray." Then the singing stopped.
"I knew I couldn't get to him," Renee said.
"I'm certainly not a person who's on a soapbox saying people shouldn't smoke,'' she said in the Back Bay office of her lawyer. "But when it affects somebody else, that's where the line needs to be drawn. It's an awful thing to not be able to escape from something that's hurting your health.''If she wins, it opens up a new front in the second-hand smoke war.
In January, Prince, who was 15, hanged herself. Both school officials and students connected her death to the bullying that preceded it, and the school committee meeting that followed her suicide was packed with 300 people. Many of them were parents, and some of them blamed the school. One father, whose daughter had also been bullied in ninth grade said, "This is not a new problem," according to the local paper.None of the usual prevention plans -- similar to ones employed in Minnesota -- worked. Letters to parents about cyberbullying, student handbooks, workshops -- nothing worked. It's not so much that the schools don't have any cyberbullying policies; it's that they don't know how to implement them in a way that will work.
The killings have produced urban legends about the song and left Filipinos groping for answers. Are the killings the natural byproduct of the country's culture of violence, drinking and machismo? Or is there something inherently sinister in the song?5) OK, I'll say it. Political coverage isn't making any sense. The Star Tribune has a story today about how Republicans are making a comeback, thanks in part to the influence of the Tea Party. This means that in 15 months, people's political philosophy has swung from the left to the right. Maybe. Maybe not. Public opinion usually swings over the course of, say, a decade.
Whatever the reason, many karaoke bars have removed the song from their playbooks. And the country's many Sinatra lovers, like Mr. Gregorio here in this city in the southernmost Philippines, are practicing self-censorship out of perceived self-preservation.
Obviously, this analysis is superficial in certain ways. All issues are by no means created equal, and health care in particular, which is unpopular, has weighed heavily upon the public's perception of the Democrats. In addition, there is probably another layer of 'meta-argument' that goes beyond specific issues, and at which the GOP has tended to excel.Is the answer somewhere in between? Perhaps we don't know what we want? Oh, and the horse-race coverage of politics isn't making us any more informed.
Nevertheless, it runs in contrast to the objective evidence when one asserts, as Hanson does, that "On every issue ... the Obama position polls 5-15 points below 50 percent." Rather, the votes taken by the Republican Congress have far more often been out of step with those of the median voter.
Did you just call that the tea bag party, was that a Freudian slip of what this group plans to do to America
Bob,
I thought I heard Kerri Miller tell me that her guest this morning at 10a is the signer, Rosanne Cash. When did she change the topic to cancer?
Love you and your work.
-- Valerie
Re: Tea Bag -- Mistake. i blame Jon Stewart
Valerie: Fixing. The cancer show is actually the first hour that will be broadcast outside the metro so the audience there doesn't have to listen to city issues.
Cash in the second hour. thanks for the catch.
Thanks for the update, Bob.
Is this something new? So because I'm in the Twin Cities, I'll hear something different during Midmorning than if I were listening to the news station in Bemidji?
> We have an early candidate for the News Cut
> our lawsuit-of-the-day. A Boston woman is suing
> her real estate broker because neighbors in her
> condo building smoke and she has asthma.
Hmmmm.... do you think we could start a class action lawsuit against all the people filing frivolous lawsuits?
Wow. Walter Mondale on Midday. Who could have seen that coming? I like the former VP and generally appreciate what he has to say, but Gary seems to recycle his guests more and more with each passing month.
"The Star Tribune has a story today about how Republicans are making a comeback, thanks in part to the influence of the Tea Party. ... But how to square this notion with fivethirtyeight.com statistics guru Nate Silver's post today which claims that Republicans are usually on the wrong side of public opinion?"
Easy. Republicans have a very very effective marketing machine. The drive-by media, by which I mean, roughly, commercial media, does not cover political issues, they cover 'he said, she said'. The electorate are ill informed, and the GOP have a very effective buzzword factory that condenses their views into soundbites that play well on TV. Dems are terrible at this game, and tend to lose support because they don't explain their positions very well at all. The GOP's 'no taxes, ever' policies win they day, every time. Who likes paying taxes? The Dems haven't figured out how to make the point that without taxes, you don't get services, unless you borrow, or play accounting gimmicks. They need a good soundbite to make the point. I think they need to respond to the 'no taxes, ever' arguments by calling it what it is: a fraudulent claim of 'something for nothing'. Instead, they try to get on the 'something for nothing' game too - see dem rhetoric on middle class tax cuts that we, collectively, cannot afford and do not deserve.
I have to agree with bsimon's comment about sound bite politics.
Our federal legislature was built on the idea of "reasoned debate". One cannot have a reasoned debate using 30-60 second soundbites and 140 character tweets.
With respect to the Tea Party groups, I wonder how many of them realize that if they had been around in 1773 they most likely would have been opposed to Adams and Hancock, and the original Tea Party.
>>Wow. Walter Mondale on Midday. Who could have seen that coming?
Mr. Eichten ought to have Mr. Mondale's comments as often as possible. The former Vice President is a deep thinker with a singularly unique life experience. He can teach us quite a bit.
Former Minnesota Governor Carlson is another frequent guest on my “don’t miss this” list.
re: teen suicide
Teenage children are intensely private as they establish identities separate from their families and parents. Seminars, rules, and/or legislation cannot force them to open up when they are hurting. That's what makes the issue of bullying is so tough to deal with. The victims are often ashamed and won't speak out. The people most likely to observe the bullying are also teens, and they keep quiet under peer pressure and fear of reprisals including social humiliation.
Kids, be confident in yourselves. Do the right thing even when it is hard.
"With respect to the Tea Party groups, I wonder how many of them realize that if they had been around in 1773 they most likely would have been opposed to Adams and Hancock, and the original Tea Party."
Jack, can you expound on this? Is there something tangible you are basing this on or just your thoughts?
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